Trusting the government is like trusting an abusive partner.
We want so badly to believe that they care but deep in our soul we know the truth.
We cannot “obedience” our way out of an abusive relationship. It must be seen for what it is. And left behind.
This is the real task + this takes effort because it means doing the internal work that allows us to say no. And mean it.
To our collective growth,
Tara x
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In the midst of all the chaos
There is a stillness
If you really listen
There is a voice
A voice long forgotten
Perhaps a voice
From lifetimes ago
S/he is telling you
That it’s Time
Time to come forth
Time to listen
Time to follow
Your Soul’s true calling
Time to finally do the thing
You truly came
To this planet
To do
You know
Don’t you
What that thing is
But you probably tell yourself a story
That you don’t really know
That you haven’t "figured it out"
Quite yet
For years I told myself a story too
About how I had to “choose”
About how I couldn’t really
Be or Do or Have it all
I couldn’t be the girl
Who talked about social activism
And entrepreneurship
And money
The girl who valued
Business seminars
And vegan protests
I couldn’t work with athletes
While ranting about spirituality
And humanity and the collective good
But I was wrong
Because the truth is
You can be whoever
You wanna be
You don’t need me
You don't need time
And you don't need
Permission
To be who you are
The other truth
Is that not everyone
Is going to like it
Not everyone
Is going to approve
Some will ridicule you
To your face
Others will talk behind your back
Many will follow you from a distance
Keeping closer eyes on you
Then your so-called enemies
But when you understand
That you came here
For a reason
It makes it so much easier
To tune out the noise
It makes it so much easier
To realize
That in the end
There is only One
You will have to answer to
Journaling Exercise:
So I’ll ask you a question
That one of my mentors
Once asked me
If I handed you a megaphone
And you had 30 seconds
To talk to the entire world
What would you say?
What message
What wisdom
Would you leave behind?
What would you want
Humanity to know?
Because that’s where
Your passion really lies
It’s in the conversations
You have
With your closest friends
It’s in the magic
Of what inspires you
And angers you
And brings you to tears
It’s the stuff that most of us
Keep to ourselves
Or write in our journals
It's the stuff on our Hearts
The real us
Unmasked
Unveiled
Knowing
That we may be mocked
Knowing full well
That people may have
Not-so-nice things
To say about us
And sometimes even knowing
Who those people are
But consciously choosing
Not to let it matter
Your purpose
Is so much bigger
Than your stories
It’s so much bigger
Than your fear
Joy is your natural state
It’s time for you to remember
To our collective growth,
Tara x
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So here’s the thing
The life you dream of
The things that keep you up at night
The message you have to share with the world
And the money and impact you came to make
These treasures
And more
Are unleashed
In direct proportion
To your level of commitment
God is always asking us
Whether we hear Him or not
“Are you truly willing
To follow your Highest Calling
Are you truly willing
To do what it takes”
Now I’m not gonna sit here and tell you
That I have it all figured out
Because I don’t
But what I can tell you for sure is this
No amount of positive thinking
Or attending seminars and workshops
Is ever going to create the life you want
If you’re not willing to do at least
The following 3 things:
Commit Fully To The Path Of Growth
This sounds obvious enough
But how often do we say one thing
And then go off and do another
How often do we proclaim our big goals
Perhaps to friends
Or even publicly on social media
But when it comes down to it
We choose to go out partying
Instead of creating an offer
We choose to complain about issues
We have no direct control over
Instead of expressing appreciation
To the people in our lives who truly love us
We choose to spend time with people
Who are totally out of alignment
With our greater purpose
Instead of spending that time alone
Nourishing our bodies
Or finally reading that book
That we know can have a massive impact
On our business or our relationship
I think you guys get the point
But I can’t over-state the importance
Of this first step
Because everything begins with a decision
And if you’re decision isn’t non-negotiable
Then it’s not really a decision
2. Be Willing To Face Your Pain
This is a big one
And I can promise you
If you don’t like these words
There’s a really good chance
That your (unprocessed) pain
And hurt is holding you back
Probably in all areas of your life
But definitely in business
Because we can only receive
What we have the capacity to hold
And the more pain your body is holding onto
The less room there is for the light to come through
Or for the relationship, money, or impact you desire
To be yours
There are many solutions here
But just a few ways
To address underlying, unprocessed emotions:
• Private 1:1 therapy with someone you actually trust
Is obviously one way
• I also really like and recommend EFT
It’s a simple practice which has helped me
To unlock and release a lot over the years
EFT stands for Emotional Freedom Technique
You can look it up on YouTube
The best part of this is that you can do it
In the privacy of your own home
• If you’re in the LA area
Or can get yourself here
You can follow this link
To apply to attend an event called
Transformation Day
There is really nothing quite like full immersion
And this is hands-down the most impactful
Single-day event I’ve ever attended
And I’ve attended A LOT of events
If you wanna know more
Feel free to hit reply to this email
3. Be Willing To Get Support
Because all the information in the world
Won’t do you any good
Unless you continue to integrate
Everything you’re learning
And continue to do so on a consistent basis
I can assure you
That nobody you know
Who’s playing a really big game
Is doing it without support
Including myself
There’s a team of people supporting me
Behind the scenes
And there is absolutely no question
That I wouldn’t be where I am without them
You KNOW when you feel called
And not only do you owe it to Yourself
To pursue those nudges
To Listen to that tugging in your Soul
But the world needs you
Humanity needs you
Like it has never needed you before
The world is waiting on you to release the layers
Of fear, doubt, and shame
To share your story
To share your gifts
To do it in a way that’s totally
100% special and unique to you
Humanity is calling on all of us
With a message
With the knowing
That there is so much more to Life
Than we’re currently experiencing
To rise
But first you have to decide
This has to matter more to you than absolutely anything
If you think I’m exaggerating
I’m not
And you already know
That this is your time
That joy is your natural state
And that humanity has been waiting lifetimes for you
To our collective growth,
Tara x
Nobody Else Has The Key To Your Life, Only You — And Deep Down You Know It 🔐🌱 Other people are an inconsistent and unreliable source of guidance at best. With very rare exceptions — such as a super trusted friend or mentor who actually has whatever it is that you’re looking for — most people will not be able to offer you anything close to the guidance that is available to you when you learn to tune within ♥️
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I had a dream last night, it was unlike any dream I’ve ever had before. It put the fragility of life directly before me. This dream, which was more of a nightmare tbh, I believe happened in order to encode my cells with a deep understanding that life is very short. And that once we go, the opportunity for change in this lifetime goes with us.
Of course from a very broad perspective, that’s alright because Spirit never dies. But from the equally important perspective that acknowledges how important the work we came here to do is, dying would not help as much as living fully into our purpose would.
So then the question becomes how to live. How to live fully. How to live for oneself. How to live for our true purpose. How to totally embody our planetary mission. How to cultivate our relationship with God. How to become a true vessel. How to do it and how to do it as quickly as possible because there are many things humanity is waiting on us to stand up and claim.
But none of these things can happen without more people like me and you standing up and declaring that it is so. We have immeasurable power amongst us. We have immeasurable power within us. But we have to own it. We have to stand up. We have to do the internal work. We have to speak up. We have to be VERY clear on why we’re here and what we’re here to do. Because without clarity we can’t be confident. And without confidence, we can’t do much.
The other truth is that we rise together. And I want to help you rise. Just as people have helped (and continue to help) me rise.
Stop acting as if you don’t have all the information you need to step into the highest version of you Now. Stop putting it off until some undefined future.
Stop thinking you’re not ready. Whether it’s to leave that bad situation you’re in, to FULLY SHOW UP at work, to share that vulnerable post, or finally try going vegan - 21 day vegan challenge link in my bio if you’re interested.
Regardless of what it is, it’s important to know that (from a neurobiological perspective) you will never be ready.
There is no such thing as “ready” - there is only “ready enough” and you are beyond ready enough. 🌱👽
Let’s practice the kindness we say we want to see in the world. Because the way we talk and think about others is always a reflection of the way we talk and think about ourselves.
x Tara
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Despite the abundance of self-help and feel good memes at our fingertips these days, on a neurobiological level, your brain is still wired to tell you that you’re never gonna get it quite right.
That you’re never gonna be exactly the way you’re “supposed to” be. That there will always be somebody doing it better.
It’s the voice that rears her ugly head the moment you go to publish that vulnerable post, or post that racy photo. Even posting this is slightly uncomfortable for me. It’s the voice that says: “Who do you think you are? Your message isn’t THAT important. You’re not pretty enough to post that. You haven’t gone through enough (or if that’s not true for you) you’ve gone through WAY too much. You’re too “broken” to help anyone. Nobody will listen. What if they don’t like you. Better to stay quiet. You know you won’t be able to handle the criticism. Haven’t you taken up enough space in the world already. Haven’t you caused enough problems. Maybe you’re past your prime. You’re never going to get it right anyway. Maybe it’s time to be more realistic. Maybe mom and dad were right after all . . .” You guys get the picture. The list literally goes on ad infinitum.
If it’s one thing I’ve learned over all these years it’s that the voice doesn’t just go away on its own. You have to actually do the thing you’re afraid of doing. You have to say the thing you’re afraid to say. You have to share the vulnerability.
Basically, you have to take the risk. EVEN THOUGH IT’S SCARY. You have to let that critical voice momentarily take a backseat. And eventually fade into the background of your life.
You have to know that you’re enough. No matter what anyone else says or does. Because you ARE enough. Just as you are. And understand that that voice is there to keep you “safe” — it doesn’t care if you’re happy — so it’s our job to re-educate the voice.
And you know what really helps!? The feeling of safety with the people we’re around. So I say let’s start by being nicer to each other on online, on social media.
Let’s practice the kindness we say we want to see in the world. Because the way we talk and think about others is always a reflection of the way we talk and think about ourselves.
x Tara
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Today, as Duke and I spend our last official day in LA and I’m loading up the car and reflecting on the past 13+ months of not only fun and travel (which is most of what I’ve posted), but also the heartache, the mis-aligned relationships, the battles with my inner demons — there are a lot of emotions coming to the surface, so that they can be released and healed once and for all.
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More than anything else today, I want to remind you that it matters to speak your truth. It matters to tell your story. It matters to speak for justice. It matters to speak up for those who have no voice. This is the only way for humanity to find our way back.
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But it isn’t enough just to speak. We must also do the inner emotional work of releasing our bondage to the past. Because there is a world of difference between speaking from a place of love, versus speaking from a place of fear.
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And Love is the only path through which we will return to our natural state of joy and well-being. By vibrating so high that everything which is not love simply falls out of our field. This is how we will create heaven on Earth.
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To our collective growth,
Tara x
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“Be careful what you ask for,” they say.
I never did understand that.
Be careful WHY?
Because you just might get it?
Isn’t that the whole point?
To get the things we ask for?
It may be subtle, but the fear-based message is still there. The msg that you can’t really trust yourself to even ask for the right things in life.
Maybe the updated wisdom parents can teach their kids is to question WHO is doing the asking.
Like seriously, the words might be coming out of YOUR mouth, but who’s really asking for that job?
That house?
That relationship with that ONE specific person?
Who’s really asking for the life you say you want (or are actually living)? Is it your parents?
Is it society?
Your husband?
Your wife?
Your ego?
Because if it isn’t truly you, if it’s not coming from the depths of your Soul, then even if you do achieve the so-called dream, it will be someone’s else’s life . . .
Someone else’s dream.
To our collective growth,
Tara x
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A membership site where you will get bi-weekly trainings on overcoming trauma and narcissistic abuse
I will give you the most potent pieces of information I have learned and used to heal myself from the long-standing effects of trauma, abuse, and the chronic sense of low self-worth that can result from these experiences
This membership site is especially for those who are highly motivated to do the inner work, to take action on homework assignments, and are fully committed to overcoming the stuck emotions that have been holding them back from stepping into their full potential in Life
Once you’ve signed up, we’ll be in touch to give you further instructions on how to access the group + trainings
I can’t wait to dive deep with all of you!
Tara x
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A membership site where you will get monthly live zoom trainings as well as weekly insights + journaling prompts directly from Tara in the private Telegram chat.
I will give you the most potent pieces of information I have learned and used to heal myself from the long-standing effects of trauma, abuse, and the chronic sense of low self-worth that can result from these experiences
This membership site is especially for those who are highly motivated to do the inner work, to take action on homework assignments, and are fully committed to overcoming the stuck emotions that have been holding them back from stepping into their full potential in Life
Once you’ve signed up, we’ll be in touch to give you further instructions on how to access the group + trainings
I can’t wait to dive deep with all of you!
Tara x